Reality & Financial
Lessons 61-66
See before you fix. Honest looking precedes real change.
Lessons
The Principle of Honest Looking
The first step in addressing any problem is seeing it clearly. Avoidance, minimizing, catastrophizing, and dissociating all prevent actual seeing.
Lesson 62Preparing to See
Seeing takes courage. At Level 1, you're not required to fix what you see - just see it. Looking is step 1. Doing something is a later step.
Lesson 63Financial Reality Check
Gather your account information and calculate: total cash, total debt, net position. No judgment, no spiral, no fixing - just seeing.
Lesson 64Processing the Reality Check
The act of looking changes things, even if the numbers don't change. The not-knowing often felt worse than the knowing.
Lesson 65Finding the Leaks
Money leaks through subscriptions you forgot, services you don't use, habits you don't notice. Review last month's statements for recurring charges.
Lesson 66Leak Awareness
The seeing itself changes behavior. Clear awareness makes action more natural. Apply honest looking everywhere, not just finances.