Work With Us
Everything on this site is designed so you can do it yourself. The Library is open. The curriculum is clear. Arminta is there every day. Most people don't need more than that.
But sometimes you do.
Sometimes you're working the material and something isn't shifting. You can feel it — you're circling the same pattern, doing the exercises, understanding the concepts, but the thing underneath won't move. You know it's there. You just can't see it clearly enough to name it.
That's not a failure. That's the nature of blind spots. The patterns that keep you stuck are specifically the ones you've learned to look away from. No amount of reading or self-reflection can find what you've built an entire identity around not seeing.
That's when you need another person.
The Catalyst
Two sessions with my husband Jon. He's spent years doing this work — sitting with people, asking the questions they don't want to answer, and seeing the architecture underneath the story they tell about their life.
He's not going to be mean about it. But he's not going to be careful either. He'll look at all 12 areas of your life and tell you what he sees — where you're strong, where you're pretending, and where the real bottleneck is. Most people already know, somewhere underneath. They just need someone to say it out loud.
You'll walk away knowing exactly where you are, what's holding everything else back, and what to work on first. Not in vague terms. Specifically — this area, this level, these exercises, in this order.
The Catalyst costs $2,000. It's two 90-minute sessions and a written summary. If that sounds like a lot, consider what you've already spent trying to figure this out on your own — the therapists, the courses, the books, the programs that helped a little but never got to the root. This gets to the root.
Single Sessions
If you're already working the curriculum and you hit something you can't move through alone — a life situation that surfaced, a pattern you can see but can't break, a decision you're stuck on — you can book a single session. One hour, $350. Come with what's on your mind and we'll work through it together.
You don't need to have done The Catalyst first. You don't need to be at any particular level. Just show up honestly and we'll figure out what's next.
Partnership
For a very small number of people, we offer something deeper. A full partnership — ongoing sessions with Jon and me, unlimited access, personalized guidance through every stage. We walk the path with you. Not as teachers standing at the front of the room, but beside you, for as long as the work takes.
This is $50,000 and it's not for everyone. It's for people who are done with incremental progress and ready to transform their life completely. If that's you, reach out and tell us about yourself. We'll know pretty quickly if it's a fit.
Not Sure?
If you haven't taken the Life Assessment yet, start there. It's free, it takes about 15 minutes, and it shows you where you are across all 12 areas. That alone might give you the clarity you need. And if it doesn't — if you look at your results and think "I know what's wrong but I can't fix it alone" — that's what The Catalyst is for.
If you're looking for daily guidance rather than one-on-one work, Arminta can help — either through the Guided curriculum ($29/mo) or fully personalized to your life with Personal ($79/mo).
Reach Out
If any of this resonates, fill out the form below. Tell us what's going on and what you're looking for. We read everything and we'll get back to you within a couple of days.